Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts
Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof? Frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings or tension in your marriage? Do you have a longing desire to feel heard & understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse? Wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments that drain your energy? If you can relate, you’re not alone. Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a growing career, family life, and the other stressors & unexpected challenges that sometimes show up, it can seem almost impossible…but it doesn’t have to be! Hi, we are David and Ebun, son and daughter of the King, a married couple who are still best friends, and parents of three. After being married for over a decade —while also navigating 3 major family relocations, job losses, financial challenges & major health challenges along the way— we know first-hand some of the challenges couples face in our modern world. We know what it’s like to feel disconnected as a couple while juggling the demands of work, life, and parenthood because we’ve been there. We also know what it feels like to become more intentional in our marriage and achieve a deeper level of connection & intimacy in a long-term marital relationship. Yet, through it all, we’ve not only grown stronger as a couple but also as individuals. How did we get here? Get ready to find out because we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned, unlearned, relearned, and continue to learn on this journey. Welcome to the Reconnected Marriage Partners Podcast! In this podcast, you will find practical strategies to help you improve communication with your spouse, express your needs clearly, resolve conflicts without fighting, and manage disagreements in more productive ways so you can deepen your connection & understanding of each other, work smarter as a team and feel valued in your relationship. You’ll discover actionable tips & simple systems to help you spend more quality time together while living in a busy & distracted world so you can continue to strengthen your bond, increase intimacy, and stay connected over the years. You will also find life-changing biblical encouragement & inspiration on how to live more intentionally and rise up courageously in your life & marriage while keeping God at the Center. If you’re tired of growing apart and ready to grow closer as a couple while experiencing more peace, harmony & unity in your home, then you’ve come to the right place! We invite you to join us on this journey, get ready to be inspired and gain valuable marital tips along the way as you take the next courageous step in building the stronger marriage you truly desire! .....................………………………………………......................... ➡️ Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to schedule a 15mins free discovery call! 📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, and notifications about special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page ❓For other questions/inquiries: -Email:coach@happymarriedfamily.com [Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].
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Thursday Oct 16, 2025
Thursday Oct 16, 2025
Hi friend!
“Do you love me?” Jesus asked Peter this question three times by the fire—not because He doubted Peter’s heart, but because He wanted Peter to say it, to reaffirm it, to make it known. In marriage, that same question can linger unspoken: Do you love me? And, more importantly, how do I know? In this episode, we explore why reaffirming love through both words and actions matters—and how simple, intentional practices can deepen intimacy and strengthen your bond in marriage.
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Thursday Oct 09, 2025
Thursday Oct 09, 2025
Hi friend!
Have you ever been in a conversation with your spouse where you walked away thinking, “They just don’t get me”? Or maybe you thought you were listening, only to realize later that you completely missed the heart of what they were really saying. Listening isn’t just about words—it’s about understanding the language of the heart. In this episode, you'll discover how to really listen to your spouse's heart. Alright, let's dig in.
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Thursday Oct 02, 2025
Thursday Oct 02, 2025
Hi friend!
Have you ever gone through a season in marriage where things just felt… off? Maybe a little distant, a little disconnected, or just kind of stuck?
If so, you’re not alone.
In this episode, we’re kicking off our new Questions Jesus Asked series — exploring powerful questions from Scripture through the lens of marriage. Our first stop is John 5:6–8 (NIV), where Jesus looks at a man who had been stuck for 38 years and asks:“Do you want to get well?”
At first glance, it sounds simple — but it cuts deep. Because sometimes, dysfunction feels familiar. Even comfortable. And before healing can begin in marriage, this question has to be answered honestly:
Do you really want to get well?
Whether your marriage feels distant or disconnected, this episode offers hope, encouragement, and a reminder: healing begins with a choice.
We pray this episode blesses you.
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Thursday Sep 25, 2025
Thursday Sep 25, 2025
Hi friend,
Even when there aren’t any “big” problems, couples can still feel a quiet distance. In this episode, we unpack three easily overlooked habits—certain patterns that act like barriers—that block couples from achieving a deeper connection in marriage. We’ve struggled with at least one of them ourselves, so if you recognize any of this, don’t be discouraged. Choose to take a step forward so you can enjoy a more exciting and satisfying marriage. If you’re ready to spot what’s been getting in the way (it’s probably not what you think) and start closing the gap, tune in now.
Related episodes:
EP 35 \\ Raising a family with limited time? Strengthen your marriage by adding THIS KEY INGREDIENT...even as busy parents!
EP 43 \\ No Time for “Me Time”? Why You Need to Create a Simple Self-Care Routine Even if You’re Married with Kids (& How to Make Time for Self-Care)!
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
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Thursday Sep 18, 2025
Thursday Sep 18, 2025
Hi friend!
Do you ever feel like when you try to share your feelings with your spouse, it doesn’t land the way you intended? Maybe you’re simply trying to resolve an issue and be honest, but instead your spouse reacts defensively, gets upset, or feels attacked.
You don’t want to sweep things under the carpet—because you know that leads to resentment—but you also don’t want constant conflict. So, how do you express yourself in a way that creates connection instead of tension?
In this episode, you’ll learn how to share your heart honestly without causing unnecessary conflict, and how to create a safe space where both of you feel heard and connected.
Curious to discover more?
Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!
We pray this episode blesses you.
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Thursday Sep 11, 2025
Thursday Sep 11, 2025
Hi friend!
If you’re a husband who desires to enjoy a deeper connection with his wife while also honouring God in your marriage, then this episode is for you. In this episode, I will be talking about leadership in the home, a debated topic in these modern times. Get ready to discover 3 types of leadership to embrace as a husband to improve the connection with your wife in marriage.
Curious to find out? Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more!
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Thursday Sep 04, 2025
Thursday Sep 04, 2025
Hi friend!
We all know that building a thriving marriage takes effort. And when we think about strengthening our relationships, we often jump straight to the “how-to” tips — more date nights, better communication, deeper intimacy.
But what if there’s something you need to stop doing first?
Over the years, we’ve realized that sometimes, in order to create the deeper connection and intimacy we long for, it’s not about doing more — it’s about letting go of certain habits. And today, we’re unpacking one of the most common (and sneaky!) ones.
Curious? Tune in to find out what might be quietly keeping you and your spouse from the closeness you truly desire.
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Thursday Aug 28, 2025
Thursday Aug 28, 2025
Hi friend!
Feel like you’re juggling a million things—kids, work, home life—and your marriage sometimes takes the backseat?
In this episode, you will discover ONE simple shift that can help strengthen your marriage starting today… even if you’re raising a family and don’t have a lot of time to spare.
It's something that has helped us grow in our relationship—even while parenting three children, living far from extended family, and managing the demands of everyday life here in North America.
We’re sharing this because it’s more important now than ever—especially in a fast-paced world filled with distractions constantly fighting for your attention.
✨ Want to know what it is?
🎧 Tune in to listen to find out more!
We pray this episode blesses you :)
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Thursday Aug 21, 2025
Thursday Aug 21, 2025
Hi friend!
Are you feeling frustrated by the growing misunderstandings in your marriage that seem to be pulling you and your spouse further apart? If so, you're not alone.
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 possible reasons why these misunderstandingsq may be happening more often — and what you can do to change the narrative in your relationship.
Alright, let's dig in!
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Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.
Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into an argument or fight?
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Looking forward to connecting with you!
~DavidLead Coach at Happy Married Family
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Thursday Aug 14, 2025
Thursday Aug 14, 2025
Hi friend,
Have you ever tried to express something important to your spouse—only to feel like your words aren’t landing? That disconnect can be incredibly frustrating, especially when all you want is to feel heard, seen, and understood by the person you love.
Over the years, we've realized that sometimes it’s not just what we say—but how we say it—that either opens the door for connection or quietly pushes it shut. In this episode, we’re diving into two common mistakes couples make when trying to communicate, and how these habits might be keeping your spouse from truly listening.
More importantly, we’ll show you what to do instead—simple shifts that can help you express your heart without creating more distance in the process.
Alright, let's dig in.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
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