Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts
Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof?
Frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings or tension in your marriage?
Do you have a longing desire to feel heard & understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse?
Wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments that drain your energy?
If you can relate, you’re not alone.
Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a growing career, family life, and the other stressors & unexpected challenges that sometimes show up, it can seem almost impossible…but it doesn’t have to be!
Hi, we are David and Ebun, son and daughter of the King, a married couple who are still best friends, and parents of three. After being married for over a decade —while also navigating 3 major family relocations, job losses, financial challenges & major health challenges along the way— we know first-hand some of the challenges couples face in our modern world.
We know what it’s like to feel disconnected as a couple while juggling the demands of work, life, and parenthood because we’ve been there. We also know what it feels like to become more intentional in our marriage and achieve a deeper level of connection & intimacy in a long-term marital relationship.
Yet, through it all, we’ve not only grown stronger as a couple but also as individuals. How did we get here? Get ready to find out because we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned, unlearned, relearned, and continue to learn on this journey.
Welcome to the Reconnected Marriage Partners Podcast!
In this podcast, you will find practical strategies to help you improve communication with your spouse, express your needs clearly, resolve conflicts without fighting, and manage disagreements in more productive ways so you can deepen your connection & understanding of each other, work smarter as a team and feel valued in your relationship. You’ll discover actionable tips & simple systems to help you spend more quality time together while living in a busy & distracted world so you can continue to strengthen your bond, increase intimacy, and stay connected over the years. You will also find life-changing biblical encouragement & inspiration on how to live more intentionally and rise up courageously in your life & marriage while keeping God at the Center.
If you’re tired of growing apart and ready to grow closer as a couple while experiencing more peace, harmony & unity in your home, then you’ve come to the right place! We invite you to join us on this journey, get ready to be inspired and gain valuable marital tips along the way as you take the next courageous step in building the stronger marriage you truly desire!
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31 minutes ago
31 minutes ago
Hi friend!
It’s always with us—our phones. They wake us up, keep us company, and fill every quiet moment. But what happens when that constant connection starts pulling us away from the people right in front of us—especially our spouse?
In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the subtle yet powerful impact phone distraction can have on your marriage. We’ll explore how this everyday habit might be quietly competing with your spouse—and more importantly, how to reclaim connection, intimacy, and intentional love in your relationship.
If you’ve ever felt more connected to your screen than your spouse, this episode is for you.
Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
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Thursday May 28, 2026
Thursday May 28, 2026
Hi friend!
Let’s talk about something often overlooked—but essential—for a healthy, thriving marriage: REST. Not just physical rest, but the kind that restores your mind, heart, and your connection with your spouse.
What if the closeness you’re craving isn’t about more time or better communication, but about learning to slow down together?
In a world that celebrates busyness, many couples are quietly running on empty—tired, disconnected, and just trying to keep up. But what if rest isn’t a luxury? What if it’s one of the keys to thriving in your relationship?
In today’s episode, we unpack why rest—not more effort—might be exactly what your marriage needs this season. If you desire deeper intimacy, emotional connection, and closeness, then this episode is for you.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
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Thursday May 21, 2026
Thursday May 21, 2026
Hi friend!
Are you in a place in your marriage where you’re feeling deeply upset with your spouse? Are you feeling so angry with your spouse about something he/she did and you’re just trying to figure out a way around it so you do not escalate the situation?
If this sounds familiar, tune in to listen to this episode as we explore 5 questions to ask yourself before you respond or proceed to act on that next thought (Hint: The 5 questions can be found in the five-letter pneumonic, P.R.E.F.R).
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Thursday May 14, 2026
Thursday May 14, 2026
Hi friend!
We cannot tell you that you will never experience conflict in marriage but what we can tell you is that if you know how to manage conflict or disagreements better, it will benefit your marriage. This will save you more time and energy not just in the present moment but also in the long run. This is why in this episode, I will be sharing 5 essential things to know for better conflict management in marriage so you can enjoy a closer and more connected relationship.
So get Ready...Set...Tune in to listen to find out more!
Links mentioned in this episode
Understanding Conflict in Work – Meaning, Phases, Resolutions by Management Study Guide
https://www.managementstudyguide.com/understanding-conflict.htm#
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
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Thursday May 07, 2026
Thursday May 07, 2026
Hi friend!
Have you ever avoided a difficult conversation with your spouse, hoping to keep the peace, only to feel the tension build up over time? You’re not alone. It might feel easier in the moment, but unresolved issues can lead to frustration, distance, and even resentment in the long run. Even though difficult conversations sometimes come up in marriage, how we handle them makes all the difference. A tough discussion can either bring you closer together or create disconnection. That’s why in this episode, I’m sharing 5 simple yet powerful phrases that can help you navigate these moments with more understanding and connection. You’ll also learn how to respond when your spouse shares their concerns, so both of you feel heard, valued, and respected. Add these phrases to your “marriage toolbox” and continue building a strong, lasting relationship!
🎧 Ready to transform the way you and your spouse communicate? Hit play and let’s dive in! ............................................................................................................................
👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
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Thursday Apr 30, 2026
Thursday Apr 30, 2026
Hi friend!
As spouses and individuals, we want to feel seen in our marriages. When it seems like our spouses are not paying attention to us the way we desire, or feel like we’re being taken for granted, disconnection and loneliness could begin to build up in marriage. The reality is that you may be doing things together and running a household but you feel this disconnect between you and your spouse. If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. We find that it is so easy for couples to fall into this lifestyle especially while living abroad with increasing demands and responsibilities in their lives. If your desire is to feel more connected to your spouse, in this episode we will be sharing 5 practical tips on how to get your spouse to pay more attention to you without starting an argument so you can feel seen in your marriage and start moving towards the goal of achieving a deeper connection in your relationship.
We pray this episode blesses you.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
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Thursday Apr 23, 2026
Thursday Apr 23, 2026
Hi friend!
We all know that building a thriving marriage takes effort. And when we think about strengthening our relationships, we often jump straight to the “how-to” tips — more date nights, better communication, deeper intimacy.
But what if there’s something you need to stop doing first?
Over the years, we’ve realized that sometimes, in order to create the deeper connection and intimacy we long for, it’s not about doing more — it’s about letting go of certain habits. And today, we’re unpacking one of the most common (and sneaky!) ones.
Curious? Tune in to find out what might be quietly keeping you and your spouse from the closeness you truly desire.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
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Thursday Apr 16, 2026
Thursday Apr 16, 2026
Hi friend,
Feeling like your needs aren’t being met in your marriage? Wondering if love is starting to feel one-sided?
You’re not alone—and you need a P.L.A.N.
Marriage was designed to reflect God’s love. But what happens when you feel unseen, unheard, or emotionally disconnected?
In today’s episode, we’re unpacking how to respond when your spouse isn’t meeting your emotional or relational needs—not with bitterness or shutdown, but with wisdom rooted in God’s Word.
We’ll walk you through a simple, godly P.L.A.N. to help you respond with faith, courage, and intentional love—no matter where you are in your marriage.
Whether you’re in a difficult season or just feeling the slow drift of disconnection, this conversation will help you lead with love, stay anchored in the truth of God’s Word, and invite Him into the unmet places of your heart.
Let’s dive in.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
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Thursday Apr 09, 2026
Thursday Apr 09, 2026
Hi friend,
Have you ever tried to express something important to your spouse—only to feel like your words aren’t landing? That disconnect can be incredibly frustrating, especially when all you want is to feel heard, seen, and understood by the person you love.
Over the years, we've realized that sometimes it’s not just what we say—but how we say it—that either opens the door for connection or quietly pushes it shut. In this episode, we’re diving into two common mistakes couples make when trying to communicate, and how these habits might be keeping your spouse from truly listening.
More importantly, we’ll show you what to do instead—simple shifts that can help you express your heart without creating more distance in the process.
Alright, let's dig in.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Thursday Apr 02, 2026
Thursday Apr 02, 2026
Hi friend!
Are you feeling frustrated by the growing misunderstandings in your marriage—like no matter how hard you try, you and your spouse keep missing each other? If so, you’re not alone.
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 possible reasons why these misunderstandings may be happening more often—and what you can do to start changing the narrative in your relationship.
Alright, let’s dig in.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!