Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts
Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof? Frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings or tension in your marriage? Do you have a longing desire to feel heard & understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse? Wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments that drain your energy? If you can relate, you’re not alone. Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a growing career, family life, and the other stressors & unexpected challenges that sometimes show up, it can seem almost impossible…but it doesn’t have to be! Hi, we are David and Ebun, son and daughter of the King, a married couple who are still best friends, and parents of three. After being married for over a decade —while also navigating 3 major family relocations, job losses, financial challenges & major health challenges along the way— we know first-hand some of the challenges couples face in our modern world. We know what it’s like to feel disconnected as a couple while juggling the demands of work, life, and parenthood because we’ve been there. We also know what it feels like to become more intentional in our marriage and achieve a deeper level of connection & intimacy in a long-term marital relationship. Yet, through it all, we’ve not only grown stronger as a couple but also as individuals. How did we get here? Get ready to find out because we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned, unlearned, relearned, and continue to learn on this journey. Welcome to the Reconnected Marriage Partners Podcast! In this podcast, you will find practical strategies to help you improve communication with your spouse, express your needs clearly, resolve conflicts without fighting, and manage disagreements in more productive ways so you can deepen your connection & understanding of each other, work smarter as a team and feel valued in your relationship. You’ll discover actionable tips & simple systems to help you spend more quality time together while living in a busy & distracted world so you can continue to strengthen your bond, increase intimacy, and stay connected over the years. You will also find life-changing biblical encouragement & inspiration on how to live more intentionally and rise up courageously in your life & marriage while keeping God at the Center. If you’re tired of growing apart and ready to grow closer as a couple while experiencing more peace, harmony & unity in your home, then you’ve come to the right place! We invite you to join us on this journey, get ready to be inspired and gain valuable marital tips along the way as you take the next courageous step in building the stronger marriage you truly desire! .....................………………………………………......................... ➡️ Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to schedule a 15mins free discovery call! 📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, and notifications about special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page ❓For other questions/inquiries: -Email:coach@happymarriedfamily.com [Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].
Episodes

Thursday Dec 29, 2022
Thursday Dec 29, 2022
Hi friend!
As we count down to the New Year, as we begin to plan what our new year resolutions or goals would be, one thing to also consider involves engaging in actions or activities that help to strengthen our marriages. One of them includes setting marriage goals.
As you prepare to step into the next phase of your marriage, there are a couple of things to keep in mind and reflect upon (in addition to setting marriage goals) as we proceed into the New Year.
Tune in to listen to find out more and looking forward to starting the New Year with you!
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Thursday Dec 22, 2022
Thursday Dec 22, 2022
Hi friend! Merry Christmas!
As Christmas Day is fast approaching and preparations are going on, let’s not forget that Jesus is the reason for the season.
How can we live and reflect Christ’s love through our actions during this season and beyond…and even in our marriages?We are excited to have a conversation around a topic that does not only affect us as individuals but also our marriages…: Spirituality!What does Spirituality entail? Does it make a difference in our marriages and relationships? How does investing in our spiritual growth affect our marriages? Does it contribute to building stronger marriages? and more!
Tune in to listen to this conversation with our Special Guest on the show - Pastor Jacques Lombard Pastor Jacques (PJ) has been married for 23 years to his amazing wife Thea and they are blessed with 2 children. He has been a Pastor for 14 years. He recently relocated to Canada from South Africa and is the Lead Pastor at Christian Life Assembly in Peace River, Alberta. He is passionate about healthy marriages and healthy leaders.We are pleased to have Pastor Jacques on the show.So, stay tuned and get ready to be enlightened as we delve into the topic of discussion for today: Spirituality and Marriage.
You can connect with Pastor Jacques Lombard on:Website: www.christianlifeassembly.caEmail: info@clapr.lifeFacebook: @ChristianLifeAssemblyPeaceRiver
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Thursday Dec 15, 2022
Thursday Dec 15, 2022
Struggling with your mental health? I have a special letter for you
with Dr. Ebun Haastrup
The holiday season is approaching, preparations are taking place, and activities bustling but there is something else…
You find yourself in a place you really don’t want to be…
It feels like a battle is taking place…
Not around you… not on the outside… but right on the inside...
The battle of the mind.
It feels like you are in a prison not a physical one but in this case…a prison of your thoughts… a prison you so badly want to get out of…
Friend, if this sounds like the place where you find yourself, I want you to know that you’re not alone.
I have been where you are. I see you. I know this word describes what you deeply desire:
“FREEDOM”
I am here extending my hand to you, sitting with you, thinking about you...
About to present something to you…
A letter…a special letter.
A letter born out of my pain…
A letter I wrote during one of the toughest moments of my life as I struggled with my mental health…and thoughts that I so badly wanted to run away from…
A letter I wrote as I thought about you…your pain…and what you could be going through...
A letter I wrote during a challenging period in my life…when I found myself in a place that felt more like a prison…
Just like you…a prison of my thoughts
And now, I want to read that letter to you as I think of you and many others that have found themselves in this prison at this time of the year…
A prison so familiar...
Tune in to listen to this episode to find out more plus grab some encouragement along the way!
Sending love, prayers, and comfort your way…
I pray this episode blesses you.
Dr. Ebun Haastrup
Mental Health Advocate
Passionate Writer
Encourager
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Thursday Dec 08, 2022
Thursday Dec 08, 2022
Hi friend! Today, we continue our conversation from last week on the following topic: Adapting & Finding a Balance in Marriage, Men’s Mental Health, Having a Support System & Seeking Help in the Diaspora.
**This is the concluding part of a two-part interview with our Special Guest, Dr. Brian Bajah.
So, stay tuned and get ready to listen to the concluding part of the enlightening interview from last week!
You can reach Dr. Brian Bajah on social media. You can find him on Instagram & Facebook.
[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].
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Thursday Dec 01, 2022
Thursday Dec 01, 2022
Hi friend! Today, we will continue with the series: Your Marriage and Mental Health.
In this episode, we will be listening to Part 1 of a two-part interview with a Special Guest on the show.
Do follow along as we delve into the topic for discussion:
Adapting & Finding a Balance in Marriage, Men’s Mental Health, Having a Support System & Seeking Help while living in the Diaspora.
Our Special Guest on the show is Dr. Brian Bajah, a Clinical Psychologist based in the United States.
Dr. Brian Bajah earned his undergraduate degree in psychology from Benue State University in Nigeria. Then, he relocated to the United States and obtained a master’s degree in forensic psychology from Argosy University in Los Angeles.
Dr. Brian furthered his education with a doctorate in Clinical Psychology at The Chicago School of Professional Psychology, Los Angeles campus. Dr. Brian Bajah has worked with children, adolescents, families, couples, and adults of various ages. He has experience in individual psychotherapy, group therapy, facilitating relationship skills workshops, coaching parenting, and co-parenting classes.
So, Stay tuned and get ready to be enlightened as we dig into the topic of discussion for today.
You can reach Dr. Brian Bajah on social media. You can find him on Instagram & Facebook.
[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].
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Thursday Nov 24, 2022
Thursday Nov 24, 2022
Hi friend! Today, we continue our conversation from last week on the following topic: Prioritizing our mental health and offering support to spouses in marriage.
Our Special Guest, Dr. Adeola will continue to take us on a journey as she addresses some other areas as it relates to mental health: Some signs and symptoms to look out for, when to seek help and more!
So, stay tuned and get ready to be enlightened as we continue this interesting conversation from last week!
You can connect with Dr. Adeola Adeyemi on:
Instagram: @talkmental.health
Facebook: Talk Mental Health
Linked In: Talk Mental Health
Website: www.talkmentalhealth.org
Email: info@talkmentalhealth.com.ng
You can also find her on YouTube and Tiktok.
You can order a copy of her book, "YOU DESERVE BLISS: Your Self-care Guide to Everyday Fulfilment." on Amazon or on her website: www.talkmentalhealth.org
[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].
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Thursday Nov 17, 2022
Thursday Nov 17, 2022
Hi friend! Today, we will be starting a new series on the show: Your Marriage and Mental Health.
We will be digging deep into an important topic that affects us all as well as our marriages, families, communities and the whole world - Mental Health. We cannot ignore the importance and role of our mental health and well-being in our daily lives and functioning.
In this episode, we will be listening to Part 1 of a two-part interview as we discuss the following topic: Prioritizing our mental health and offering support to spouses in marriage.
During this interesting and insightful interview, our Special Guest will be taking us on a journey as she addresses some of the following areas as it relates to mental health: Understanding what mental health really entails, prioritizing our mental health, self-care, and support for spouses/partners, seeking help and more!
Our Special Guest is Dr. Adeola Adeyemi and we are pleased to have her on the show.
Dr. Adeola is a Consultant Psychiatrist, a Psychotherapist experienced in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Mindfulness Training, and a Mental Fitness Coach.
With over 22 years in the medical field, Dr. Adeola is driven by a vision to help build a society where mental health is normalized and emotional well-being is prioritized. This passion led her to start her company ‘Talk Mental Health’ in 2018, an organization that aims to help individuals, especially women, live healthier and more fulfilling lives through innovative mental health interventions.
Dr. Adeola is also the author of the book, "YOU DESERVE BLISS: Your Self-care Guide to Everyday Fulfilment."
So, Stay tuned and get ready to be enlightened as we delve into the topic of discussion for today: Prioritizing your Mental Health and Support for Spouses.
You can connect with Dr. Adeola Adeyemi on:
Instagram: @talkmental.health
Facebook: Talk Mental Health
Linked In: Talk Mental Health
Website: www.talkmentalhealth.org
Email: info@talkmentalhealth.com.ng
You can also find her on YouTube and Tiktok.
You can order a copy of her book, "YOU DESERVE BLISS: Your Self-care Guide to Everyday Fulfilment." on Amazon or on her website: www.talkmentalhealth.org
[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].
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Thursday Nov 10, 2022
Thursday Nov 10, 2022
**This is Part 5 of a 5-Part Episode Series**
Hi friend!
Are you struggling to take the next steps toward building the stronger marriage you desire?
You’re not alone.
In this episode, we uncover the 5th REASON that could be holding you back so you can proceed forward during your marital journey.
So Get Ready for another inspiring episode...Get Set...
Tune in to listen to find out more!
We pray this episode blesses you.
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Thursday Nov 03, 2022
Thursday Nov 03, 2022
**This is Part 4 of a 5-Part Episode Series**
Hi friend!
Are you struggling to take the next steps toward building the stronger marriage you desire?
You’re not alone.
In this episode, we uncover the 4th REASON that could be holding you back so you can proceed forward during your marital journey.
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Thursday Oct 27, 2022
Thursday Oct 27, 2022
**This is Part 3 of a 5-Part Episode Series**
Hi friend!
Are you struggling to take the next steps toward building the stronger marriage you desire?
You’re not alone.
In this episode, we uncover the 3rd REASON that could be holding you back so you can proceed forward during your marital journey.
So Get Ready for another inspiring episode...Get Set...
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We pray this episode blesses you.
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