Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts

Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof? Frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings or tension in your marriage? Do you have a longing desire to feel heard & understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse? Wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments that drain your energy? If you can relate, you’re not alone. Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a growing career, family life, and the other stressors & unexpected challenges that sometimes show up, it can seem almost impossible…but it doesn’t have to be! Hi, we are David and Ebun, son and daughter of the King, a married couple who are still best friends, and parents of three. After being married for over a decade —while also navigating 3 major family relocations, job losses, financial challenges & major health challenges along the way— we know first-hand some of the challenges couples face in our modern world. We know what it’s like to feel disconnected as a couple while juggling the demands of work, life, and parenthood because we’ve been there. We also know what it feels like to become more intentional in our marriage and achieve a deeper level of connection & intimacy in a long-term marital relationship. Yet, through it all, we’ve not only grown stronger as a couple but also as individuals. How did we get here? Get ready to find out because we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned, unlearned, relearned, and continue to learn on this journey. Welcome to the Reconnected Marriage Partners Podcast! In this podcast, you will find practical strategies to help you improve communication with your spouse, express your needs clearly, resolve conflicts without fighting, and manage disagreements in more productive ways so you can deepen your connection & understanding of each other, work smarter as a team and feel valued in your relationship. You’ll discover actionable tips & simple systems to help you spend more quality time together while living in a busy & distracted world so you can continue to strengthen your bond, increase intimacy, and stay connected over the years. You will also find life-changing biblical encouragement & inspiration on how to live more intentionally and rise up courageously in your life & marriage while keeping God at the Center. If you’re tired of growing apart and ready to grow closer as a couple while experiencing more peace, harmony & unity in your home, then you’ve come to the right place! We invite you to join us on this journey, get ready to be inspired and gain valuable marital tips along the way as you take the next courageous step in building the stronger marriage you truly desire! .....................………………………………………......................... ➡️ Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to schedule a 15mins free discovery call! 📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, and notifications about special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page ❓For other questions/inquiries: -Email:coach@happymarriedfamily.com [Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].

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9 hours ago

Hi friend,
Merry Christmas!
Here is a message of hope, joy, peace and love for your marriage.
We pray this episode blesses you:)
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Thursday Dec 18, 2025

Hi friend!
As we move through different seasons of marriage and life, it’s easy to find yourself focusing more on what’s not working than on what is—especially when responsibilities increase, and challenges arise. Over time, this pattern can slowly influence the atmosphere of your home, your mindset, and even the direction your marriage is heading.
In today’s episode, we’re talking about one powerful habit that can help shift this pattern. It’s a simple, intentional practice that has the potential to change how you think, how you relate to your spouse, and how you experience your marriage—even during difficult seasons.
So how can one habit make such a meaningful difference?
Tune in to listen and find out more!
We hope this episode blesses you.
 
Links mentioned in this episode:
 
-Giving thanks can make you happier by Harvard Health Publishing blog
https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier
 
Additional resources you may be interested in:
 
A Devotional by Youversion on Gratitude
YouVersion plan 'How to Be Grateful for Your Life'. Check it out here:https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/22405
 
-The Word for Today by Bob and Debby Gass 
https://vision.org.au/the-word-for-today/associated-blog/the-word-for-today-devotional-content/gratitude/
 
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
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Thursday Dec 11, 2025

Hi friend!
Today’s episode is a short but very exciting one — because our brand-new marriage book, A Couple’s First Ten Years, has officially launched!
In this book, we open up about our first ten years of marriage: the highs and lows, the unexpected turns, and the faith that carried us through each season. We share honest, behind-the-scenes stories from our journey — along with practical tools, reflections, and insights designed to help you strengthen your own marriage in real life, not just in theory.
If you’re in your first ten years… or even twenty years into marriage… and you desire a stronger, more connected marriage in partnership with God — this book is for you.
 Special launch pricing is happening now through December 31!Grab your copy on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
If this show has blessed you, here are three meaningful ways to support the launch:
Tell someone about the bookShare this episode with someone who might need encouragement today.Your share might reach a couple right in the middle of a hard season.
Leave a review on AmazonYour review helps this message reach more people
Grab a copyFor yourself, for a friend, or as a gift for a couple you love.A portion of this month’s sales will be donated to an organization that supports families in need — so your purchase makes an impact beyond your home.
We’re so grateful to have you on this journey with us.Thank you for your love and support!
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Thursday Dec 04, 2025

Hi friend, 
If you’ve been married for a while, you already know this truth: staying connected as a couple goes far beyond paying the bills, keeping the home running, or juggling everyday responsibilities. And yes, these are important. But if you’re longing for more intimacy, emotional closeness, and unity in your marriage, one powerful choice you can make today is to partner with God and take courageous steps in your marriage—even when it feels uncomfortable or in the absence of immediate gratification.
Whether you’re walking through a challenging season or simply hoping to strengthen the bond you already share, this episode offers gentle, biblical encouragement to help you move toward a more connected, God-centered marriage.
We pray this episode blesses you:)
🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release of our upcoming book, A Couple's First Ten Years, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.
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Thursday Nov 27, 2025

Hi friend!
Are you in a season of marriage where you feel deeply hurt or upset by something your spouse has said or done? Maybe you’re overwhelmed with anger and you’re trying to decide how to respond without escalating the situation or creating a bigger conflict.
If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. We’re walking through five powerful questions to ask yourself before you respond or take the next step. These questions help you pause, reflect, and approach the moment with clarity instead of emotion.
(Hint: They follow the simple five-letter acronym P.R.E.F.R.)
🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release of our upcoming book, A Couple's First Ten Years, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.
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Thursday Nov 20, 2025

Hi friend!
Are you on the verge of giving up on your marriage? Have you been facing difficult challenges that are weighing you down? Does it seem like you are growing farther apart from each other with every passing day?  
If this is where you are right now, you are not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 5 tips to try so you can start working towards building the strong & connected marriage you so desire.
🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release of our upcoming book, A Couple's First Ten Years, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.
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Thursday Nov 13, 2025

Hi friend!
In today’s short and exciting announcement episode, we’re sharing some big news — our brand-new marriage book, A Couple’s First Ten Years, is launching soon!
This book is a tender, honest, and hope-filled look at our first decade of marriage: the highs, the lows, the unexpected turns, and the faith that carried us through each season. Inside, we share real stories from our journey, along with practical tools, reflections, and insights designed to support you in your own relationship journey.
🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.
We’re so excited for you to hear this announcement and even more excited to share the full book with you soon.
Tune in to listen, grab your favorite snack and enjoy the episode!
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📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
Ready for a marriage reset?🎁 Join the Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com]
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Thursday Nov 06, 2025

Hi friend!
Have you ever noticed how fear shows up in marriage? It’s not always loud or dramatic. Sometimes fear whispers. It looks like withholding how you really feel because you don’t want to be misunderstood. It appears as distance, when avoiding a hard conversation feels safer than being vulnerable. Fear builds walls—quietly, slowly, and over time.
But trust?Trust opens doors.Trust invites God to be the center.Trust turns two individuals into a team.
In today’s episode, we’re talking about what it looks like to overcome fear together—not by trying harder, but by trusting God to guide your heart, your words, and your connection. Whether you’re newlyweds or years into the journey, this conversation will help you move closer, communicate more honestly, and love more courageously.
Let’s grow in faith.Let’s choose trust.
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📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
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Thursday Oct 30, 2025

Hi friend,
Faith is more than a Sunday-morning declaration—it’s a daily walk. In this episode, we unpack what “living out your faith” really means, especially within marriage. Together, we’ll explore how to bring faith from words to action—in the way we speak, forgive, and serve each other every day.
If you’ve ever wondered what faith looks like in real life—not just in church, but in the quiet, ordinary moments of marriage—this conversation is for you.
Alright, let’s dig in!
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
Ready for a marriage reset?🎁 Join the Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com]
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Thursday Oct 23, 2025

Hi friend!
Have you ever noticed how the way you see your spouse shapes the way you treat them? When you focus only on their flaws, your words can become sharp and your patience thin. But when you choose to see them through God’s eyes—through His love and grace—your heart softens, and your connection deepens. In this episode, we’re asking: Who do you say your spouse is?
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
Ready for a marriage reset?🎁 Join the Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com]
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