Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts
Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof?
Frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings or tension in your marriage?
Do you have a longing desire to feel heard & understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse?
Wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments that drain your energy?
If you can relate, you’re not alone.
Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a growing career, family life, and the other stressors & unexpected challenges that sometimes show up, it can seem almost impossible…but it doesn’t have to be!
Hi, we are David and Ebun, son and daughter of the King, a married couple who are still best friends, and parents of three. After being married for over a decade —while also navigating 3 major family relocations, job losses, financial challenges & major health challenges along the way— we know first-hand some of the challenges couples face in our modern world.
We know what it’s like to feel disconnected as a couple while juggling the demands of work, life, and parenthood because we’ve been there. We also know what it feels like to become more intentional in our marriage and achieve a deeper level of connection & intimacy in a long-term marital relationship.
Yet, through it all, we’ve not only grown stronger as a couple but also as individuals. How did we get here? Get ready to find out because we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned, unlearned, relearned, and continue to learn on this journey.
Welcome to the Reconnected Marriage Partners Podcast!
In this podcast, you will find practical strategies to help you improve communication with your spouse, express your needs clearly, resolve conflicts without fighting, and manage disagreements in more productive ways so you can deepen your connection & understanding of each other, work smarter as a team and feel valued in your relationship. You’ll discover actionable tips & simple systems to help you spend more quality time together while living in a busy & distracted world so you can continue to strengthen your bond, increase intimacy, and stay connected over the years. You will also find life-changing biblical encouragement & inspiration on how to live more intentionally and rise up courageously in your life & marriage while keeping God at the Center.
If you’re tired of growing apart and ready to grow closer as a couple while experiencing more peace, harmony & unity in your home, then you’ve come to the right place! We invite you to join us on this journey, get ready to be inspired and gain valuable marital tips along the way as you take the next courageous step in building the stronger marriage you truly desire!
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[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].
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11 hours ago
11 hours ago
Hi friend,
Every marriage is shaped by the beliefs we carry—some bring hope, while others quietly create distance.
In this episode, David explores how limiting beliefs about your spouse, yourself, or your marriage influence how you show up, how you respond, and how you relate.
You’ll learn how identifying and replacing those lies with truth can begin restoring emotional safety, clarity, and connection.
This week’s courageous step will help you reset your mindset and create space for reconnection to grow.
Because when beliefs change, direction changes—and connection can begin again.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
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Thursday Feb 05, 2026
Thursday Feb 05, 2026
Hi friend,
Marriage drift doesn’t happen all at once—it happens quietly.
In this first episode of the CourageoUS Love Challenge, David shares the moment that brought the quiet drift in his marriage into focus—and the courageous choice that changed the direction of his home.
This episode kicks off an 8-week podcast journey designed to help you reset your marriage and reconnect with your spouse through one episode and one courageous action each week.
If you’ve felt more like roommates than partners, overwhelmed by life’s pressures, or unsure where to even begin, this is your starting point.
One episode.One courageous action.One step toward resetting your marriage.
Start here—then join us each week for the next courageous step.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
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Thursday Jan 29, 2026
Thursday Jan 29, 2026
Hi friend,
The men who came to David were united, disciplined, and brought provision—support that strengthened the mission. Marriage needs that too: unity, boundaries, and a wise support system. In this episode, we talk about building a “marriage circle” that protects connection: mentors, friends, family boundaries, spiritual covering, and practical supports that reduce load. You’ll learn how to fight the real enemy together and strengthen connection and stability in your home.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Thursday Jan 22, 2026
Thursday Jan 22, 2026
Hi friend,
The sons of Issachar were known for understanding the times and knowing what to do. Many couples don’t fail from lack of love—they struggle because they misread their season. In this episode, you'll uncover your current season (parenting, grief, relocation, rebuilding trust, burnout, financial pressure) and adjust expectations and strategies accordingly. You’ll get a simple “season check-in” framework to reduce tension and increase teamwork.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Thursday Jan 15, 2026
Thursday Jan 15, 2026
Hi friend,
David’s supporters weren’t only loyal—they were trained, ready, and dependable. What if your marriage didn’t just need more love, but better skills? In this episode, we connect 1 Chronicles 11–12 to practical marriage tools: healthy communication, repair after conflict, emotional regulation, and daily rhythms that keep love steady. You’ll learn how to “train for connection” so your home feels safer, warmer, and more united—even during stressful weeks.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Thursday Jan 08, 2026
Thursday Jan 08, 2026
Hi friend,
When marriage feels distant, it’s easy to withdraw, keep score, or assume the worst. In 1 Chronicles 11–12, people supported David before his story looked “successful.” In this episode, we translate that kind of loyalty into marriage: what it looks like to stay emotionally present, speak with honor, and keep choosing connection even when feelings are low. You’ll leave with simple ways to rebuild safety and closeness—one faithful moment at a time.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Thursday Jan 01, 2026
Thursday Jan 01, 2026
Hi friend,
Want to start the new year with a marriage reset that actually lasts? In this January 1 episode, David unpacks how 1 Chronicles 11–12 reveals the power of a strong support system—one built on loyalty, wisdom, unity, and practical reinforcement. You’ll be introduced to the C.I.R.C.L.E. framework, a simple approach to strengthening connection, protecting peace, and building rhythms that help your marriage grow closer all year long.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Thursday Dec 25, 2025
Thursday Dec 25, 2025
Hi friend,
Merry Christmas!
Here is a message of hope, joy, peace and love for your marriage.
We pray this episode blesses you:)
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
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Thursday Dec 18, 2025
Thursday Dec 18, 2025
Hi friend!
As we move through different seasons of marriage and life, it’s easy to find yourself focusing more on what’s not working than on what is—especially when responsibilities increase, and challenges arise. Over time, this pattern can slowly influence the atmosphere of your home, your mindset, and even the direction your marriage is heading.
In today’s episode, we’re talking about one powerful habit that can help shift this pattern. It’s a simple, intentional practice that has the potential to change how you think, how you relate to your spouse, and how you experience your marriage—even during difficult seasons.
So how can one habit make such a meaningful difference?
Tune in to listen and find out more!
We hope this episode blesses you.
Links mentioned in this episode:
-Giving thanks can make you happier by Harvard Health Publishing blog
https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier
Additional resources you may be interested in:
A Devotional by Youversion on Gratitude
YouVersion plan 'How to Be Grateful for Your Life'. Check it out here:https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/22405
-The Word for Today by Bob and Debby Gass
https://vision.org.au/the-word-for-today/associated-blog/the-word-for-today-devotional-content/gratitude/
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten YearsAvailable on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Thursday Dec 11, 2025
Thursday Dec 11, 2025
Hi friend!
Today’s episode is a short but very exciting one — because our brand-new marriage book, A Couple’s First Ten Years, has officially launched!
In this book, we open up about our first ten years of marriage: the highs and lows, the unexpected turns, and the faith that carried us through each season. We share honest, behind-the-scenes stories from our journey — along with practical tools, reflections, and insights designed to help you strengthen your own marriage in real life, not just in theory.
If you’re in your first ten years… or even twenty years into marriage… and you desire a stronger, more connected marriage in partnership with God — this book is for you.
Special launch pricing is happening now through December 31!Grab your copy on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears
If this show has blessed you, here are three meaningful ways to support the launch:
Tell someone about the bookShare this episode with someone who might need encouragement today.Your share might reach a couple right in the middle of a hard season.
Leave a review on AmazonYour review helps this message reach more people
Grab a copyFor yourself, for a friend, or as a gift for a couple you love.A portion of this month’s sales will be donated to an organization that supports families in need — so your purchase makes an impact beyond your home.
We’re so grateful to have you on this journey with us.Thank you for your love and support!
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