Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts
Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof? Frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings or tension in your marriage? Do you have a longing desire to feel heard & understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse? Wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments that drain your energy? If you can relate, you’re not alone. Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a growing career, family life, and the other stressors & unexpected challenges that sometimes show up, it can seem almost impossible…but it doesn’t have to be! Hi, we are David and Ebun, son and daughter of the King, a married couple who are still best friends, and parents of three. After being married for over a decade —while also navigating 3 major family relocations, job losses, financial challenges & major health challenges along the way— we know first-hand some of the challenges couples face in our modern world. We know what it’s like to feel disconnected as a couple while juggling the demands of work, life, and parenthood because we’ve been there. We also know what it feels like to become more intentional in our marriage and achieve a deeper level of connection & intimacy in a long-term marital relationship. Yet, through it all, we’ve not only grown stronger as a couple but also as individuals. How did we get here? Get ready to find out because we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned, unlearned, relearned, and continue to learn on this journey. Welcome to the Reconnected Marriage Partners Podcast! In this podcast, you will find practical strategies to help you improve communication with your spouse, express your needs clearly, resolve conflicts without fighting, and manage disagreements in more productive ways so you can deepen your connection & understanding of each other, work smarter as a team and feel valued in your relationship. You’ll discover actionable tips & simple systems to help you spend more quality time together while living in a busy & distracted world so you can continue to strengthen your bond, increase intimacy, and stay connected over the years. You will also find life-changing biblical encouragement & inspiration on how to live more intentionally and rise up courageously in your life & marriage while keeping God at the Center. If you’re tired of growing apart and ready to grow closer as a couple while experiencing more peace, harmony & unity in your home, then you’ve come to the right place! We invite you to join us on this journey, get ready to be inspired and gain valuable marital tips along the way as you take the next courageous step in building the stronger marriage you truly desire! .....................………………………………………......................... ➡️ Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to schedule a 15mins free discovery call! 📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, and notifications about special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page ❓For other questions/inquiries: -Email:coach@happymarriedfamily.com [Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].
Episodes

4 days ago
4 days ago
Hi friend!
You’ve probably said it—or at least thought it:“Once things calm down... once I get that promotion... once the timing feels right, then we'll reconnect."
It’s so easy to fall into the trap of waiting for the perfect time to connect with your spouse. But here’s the truth: waiting might be hurting your marriage more than helping it.
In this episode, we’re unpacking 4 powerful reasons why you shouldn’t delay meaningful connection with your spouse—including how waiting for the “right time” can quietly sabotage intimacy and what to do instead.
Whether you’ve felt emotionally distant lately or simply “too busy,” this loving (and practical!) conversation will give you the nudge you need to prioritize your marriage right now—in the middle of real life.
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Thursday May 29, 2025
Thursday May 29, 2025
Hi friend!
It’s always with us—our phones. They wake us up, keep us company, and fill every quiet moment. But what happens when that constant connection starts pulling us away from the people right in front of us—especially our spouse?
In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the subtle yet powerful impact phone distraction can have on your marriage. We’ll explore how this everyday habit might be quietly competing with your spouse—and more importantly, how to reclaim connection, intimacy, and intentional love in your relationship.
If you’ve ever felt more connected to your screen than your spouse, this episode is for you.
Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
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Thursday May 22, 2025
Thursday May 22, 2025
Hi friend!
Marriage is one of the most beautiful bonds we can experience — but when it's struggling, it can also feel like one of the loneliest places to be.
If you’re feeling worn down, unheard, or unsure how to keep going, you’re not alone.
Today’s episode is for the couples holding on by a thread…
The ones still showing up even when it’s hard…and anyone who needs a reminder that hope is still possible.
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
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Thursday May 15, 2025
Thursday May 15, 2025
Hey friend!
Today, we’re diving into one of those topics that might feel a little uncomfortable—but that’s exactly why it’s so important to talk about.
Every marriage has its ups and downs. And sometimes, without even realizing it, we slip into habits that slowly create distance instead of building connection. In this episode, we’re talking about a few things husbands often wish their wives would stop doing—not because they’re trying to control or complain, but because they truly care. They’re longing to feel closer, more understood, and more at peace in the relationship.
This isn’t about blame or finger-pointing—it’s about understanding each other better and growing together.
So, whether you’re listening on your own or with your spouse, take a deep breath and lean in with an open heart. Some of it might sting a little—but it just might open the door to something really beautiful.
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Thursday May 08, 2025
Thursday May 08, 2025
Hi friend!
Marriage is a beautiful journey—but let’s be honest, it’s not always easy. Between work, life, and everyday routines, we can slip into habits we don’t even realize are hurting the very people we love most.
That’s why today, we’re diving into a topic that hits home for so many couples:
“4 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Would Stop Doing.”
We’re talking about those small, everyday moments—things that might make her feel unseen, unheard, or unappreciated… even if that was never your intention.
These habits, if left unchecked, can slowly chip away at trust, intimacy, and connection.
But here’s the good news: this isn’t about guilt—it’s about growth.
Backed by biblical truth and practical wisdom, we’re unpacking what it really means to lead, love, and listen with intention. Whether you’re newly married or decades in, the fact that you’re here says something powerful: you care. And that’s exactly where change begins.
This episode will challenge and equip you to love better—starting today.
So open your heart, guys… and let’s get into it.
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Thursday May 01, 2025
Thursday May 01, 2025
Hi friend!
There’s a popular saying: “Honesty is the best policy.”
But does that mean we should say everything that crosses our minds—no matter how raw, blunt, or unfiltered?
In today’s episode, we’re exploring a truth many couples overlook: Unfiltered honesty can do more harm than good in your marriage.
Words that are unprocessed or spoken in the heat of the moment—without thought or care—can slowly erode emotional safety, trust, and intimacy.
More importantly, we’ll talk about what to do instead:👉 How can you be honest and kind?👉 How do you speak without damaging your connection?
This episode is a must-listen if you want to build a marriage where honesty and compassion co-exist beautifully.
🎧 Tune in and discover how to say what’s true—without breaking the bond God is helping you build.
Related episode:
EP 142 \\ This Five-Letter Word Can Save Your Marriage!
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Thursday Apr 24, 2025
Thursday Apr 24, 2025
Hi friend!
What if the biggest threat to your marriage wasn’t arguments, finances, or stress? Today, we’re unpacking something sneaky — something that can quietly unravel even the strongest relationships: assumptions.
You know the ones:“They should know what I need.”“If they really cared, they’d act differently.”“I already know how they’ll respond, so why bother?”
Sound familiar? Yeah, I’ve been there too.
But here’s the truth: assumptions aren’t facts. And when we stop asking, stop listening, and start assuming, we slowly stop truly connecting.
In this episode, we’re diving into:
Why we make assumptions in marriage
The damage they do (even when we don’t realize it)
How to break the habit — before it breaks us.
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Thursday Apr 17, 2025
Thursday Apr 17, 2025
Hi friend!
When was the last time you asked your spouse a question that made them pause and feel truly seen?
In this episode, we're diving into 5 endearing, heartfelt questions you can ask your spouse to spark deeper connection, emotional intimacy, and meaningful conversation in your marriage.
Whether you’ve been married for 5 months or 5 years, these questions will help you go beyond surface talk and truly show your spouse that you see them, hear them, and care deeply about who they are and what they’re going through.
Grab a pen (or hit save!)—because these questions might just open the door to some of the most powerful conversations you’ve had in a while.
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Thursday Apr 10, 2025
Thursday Apr 10, 2025
Hi friend!
Looking for ways to show love to your spouse this week? In this episode, we’re diving into 3 intentional ways to express love in your marriage that will make a lasting impact. These simple yet powerful gestures will help your spouse feel truly seen, valued, and deeply loved.
Whether your goal is to reconnect or strengthen your bond in marriage, here’s your gentle reminder: showing love doesn’t have to be complicated to be impactful. Small, intentional acts of love can create lasting change in your marriage.
🎧 Tune in, take notes, and let’s build a deeper, more connected marriage—one intentional act at a time.
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Thursday Apr 03, 2025
Thursday Apr 03, 2025
Hi Friend!
The words we use in marriage matter—and sometimes, a simple shift in how we speak can make all the difference. That’s why in today’s episode, we’re diving into 5 powerful “I” statements that can help you strengthen communication, build trust, and create a deeper emotional connection with your spouse.
Because let’s be real—sometimes, it’s not just what we say, but how we say it that makes or breaks a conversation. So why not choose words that bring you closer instead of further apart?
Ready to improve communication and deepen your connection?
🎧 Hit play and let’s dive in!
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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!
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